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Topic: Latter-day Saints



Expert: Drew Williams
Date: 3/28/2008
Subject: dating

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QUESTION: According to Mormon belief, is intimacy allowed
between an elderly man and woman ? if not are there any  restrictions during courtship/dating? Both are past childbearing age. One is a Mormon member the other isn’t. Both have been married before.


ANSWER: Nope--whether you're 16 and full of pimples or 60 and full of pockmarks--"intimacy" is always a no-no.

Moral code and discretion aside, morality goes with us to the grave.

HOWEVER, this does not mean the couple cannot marry, have great sex, and die happy. But if he wants to remain in the Church--and eventually (possibly), work with her to convert to the Church, he will need to maintain his virtue during the courship. But after they're married, it's all fun-and-games, no matter what religion they are!



---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------

QUESTION: Thank you
So as an elder what would be considered Ok to do?
Holding hands?
Kissing?


Answer
What level of "Priesthood" is also not relevant. Prophet, Teacher, Priest--no matter.

Holding hands--I can never get enough of that!

Kissing--watch the "intent"

Love, Honor, Respect.

And it's the priesthood holder's responsibility to ensure these things are maintained.

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